Mirror and look ahead — it’s one in every of my favourite traditions initially of a brand new yr. On Jan. 1, as soon as the vacation decor is all packed away, and earlier than the common routine of life resumes, I mirror on the intentions I set for the earlier yr. Then, I doc new ones for the yr forward.
Lately, I’ve adopted the lead of best-selling creator and podcaster Gretchen Rubin, creating “22 for 2022” and “23 for 2023” lists.
That may look like loads to tackle in any given yr, however as Rubin explains: “These things might be straightforward or bold; one-time undertakings or habits that stretch for years; enjoyable or . . . much less enjoyable. There’s nobody option to make your listing — simply take into consideration what you need the brand new yr to carry.”
My lists characteristic a mixture of private {and professional} objectives, some giant, some small, some sensible, some aspirational. Final yr, for example, they included taking every day walks, researching the steps for writing a kids’s e book, and coaching for a health competitors or occasion.
I’m all the time to see what I’ve accomplished and what stays excellent. It leads me down a path of questioning: Why did I accomplish some issues however not others? Did my pursuits change? Was a aim too obscure or too large? Did one thing shift and pull my consideration in a unique route? Is the aim one thing I’d nonetheless like to perform?
With these insights in thoughts, I then begin to look ahead: What do I wish to construct or increase on from earlier years? What do I wish to do extra of? What do I wish to strive? The place do I wish to journey? How do I wish to really feel? How do I wish to spend my time?
“There are normally small actions or steps I can take over time that transfer me nearer to the place I’m aiming to go. This motivates me to maintain going.”
I then draft the brand new yr’s listing, first carrying over any of the objectives that also resonate with me and including on from there. The important thing, as Rubin advises and I’ve come to understand, is discovering a steadiness of ambitions.
If each aim or behavior is large, it may be exhausting to make significant progress on any of them: The place do I begin? The place do I put my focus?
However with a wide range of objectives, there are normally small actions or steps I can take over time that transfer me nearer to the place I’m aiming to go. This motivates me to maintain going. And as soon as I attain a aim, nonetheless large or small, I’ve the boldness and the expertise to know that I can most likely obtain one other one (or possibly a number of extra), too.
None of that is groundbreaking, however I share it as a substitute for the all-or-nothing resolutions and requires change that usually dominate headlines and conversations this time of yr. I share it as a result of actual progress and alter occurs when objectives are intentional, actionable, lifelike, and sustainable.
In order we begin 2024, I encourage you to discover a balanced strategy — one which honors how far you’ve come and evokes you to pursue no matter’s subsequent.
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